Update: 3 months post successful hoe phase 

A few months back, I requested the best classes to assist with improvement in riding. First of all, thank you ladies for the suggestions. I listened and took all of the classes. They were incredibly helpful. 

All jokes aside, I was having a ton of issues surrounding sex and being present in my body after a traumatic break up in 2024/ 6 year relationship. I spent most of that year putting myself back together. 2025 was where I focused on the healing work. Needless to say, I was finally able to enjoy intimacy again WITH added benefits thanks to Sensualaties and Ruth. 

While I initially thought of this as just a "hoe phase," it was really the beginning of enjoying sex, letting myself feel safe, confident and learning about myself. 🥹

The situation with the man was catastrophic (no shock there) but I'll take the win regardless. 

Happy New Year everyone 🌹